Relationships – Falling in love
In relationships, we first fall in love with the ideal image of the person
and project a fantasy onto what we see as a potential partner.
It’s not them that we see but our created image of them.
The good news is that what we are really seeing
is the other person’s potential of who they can be and we love that.
It also mirrors the potential within ourselves that is unharnessed!
To meet each other’s ultimate potential is possible however,
it needs a lot of work to get to that point since
we meet each other’s unseen flaws in the process.
To develop deep long lasting bonds in relationships,
it is wise to dissolve fantasies and strive toward each other’s greatest potential.